Kansas City has long been called the “Paris of the Plains” thanks to its multitude of fountains and picturesque boulevards. I like to think, however, that our dynamic date-night scene has a little something to do with the connection to such a romantic city.
By day, I am the Food and Drink Editor for a local arts and culture magazine, The Pitch. By night, I explore the best — and most interesting — of Kansas City’s activity and restaurant scene for social media. This leads to a myriad of date nights with my husband, but I’ve narrowed down a few top ideas to give you and your better half a uniquely KC experience.
Get to Know KC
Here is a day-long date that will have you exploring KC nearly top to bottom! Start with wine slushies or a tasting flight among the vines at KC Wine Co in Olathe. The peaceful oasis is just a few miles off I-35.
Next, make your way to downtown KC to the truly iconic WWI Memorial and enjoy the best views of the skyline. After climbing those stairs, you’ll be ready to refuel. Head to any location of Gates BBQ, which has been a quintessential KC spot since 1947. Next, satisfy your sweet tooth with your sweetie at Betty Rae’s Ice Cream.
To take it to the next level, head north to The Elms Hotel & Spa for a romantic night to cap off your big day.
Spark Some Creativity
When dinner and a movie won’t cut it, there are plenty of fun ways to spend quality time together. My top pick is to spend an hour or two at AdhDiy Craft Cafe in the West Bottoms. Go for the full experience by ordering a snack and mocktail alongside your project of choice — such as weaving, painting or even creating a terrarium.
For a more casual outing, grab a coffee at Café Equinox inside the lush greenhouse at Family Tree Nursery in Shawnee. Maybe you’ll come home with a new baby — plant baby, that is.
If you are a foodie couple, sign up for a hands-on cooking class at Hemma Hemma or Billie’s Grocery. Last but not least, an exploratory and progressive dinner at one of KC’s many food halls, such as Strang Chef Collective or Lenexa Public Market, ensures that you both leave happy.
First Dates & Meeting People
Several places come to mind for a first date, group dates or even meeting new people. For a low stakes, free activity, try the Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art — just off the Country Club Plaza, it always features a fresh exhibit or two to keep the conversation flowing.
And, no list would be complete without mentioning KC sports! Chiefs and Royals games are a blast, and KC Current and Sporting KC games may have you feeling even closer to the action and your community.
Speaking of community, people of all types enjoy gathering in the Crossroads Arts District on the first Friday of each month from April through October. First Fridays make for a fabulous date night — be sure to stop for a drink or dessert along the way as you peruse the local art scene.
There’s always something fun going on in KC, so get out there and explore!
And That’s Not All
That’s just a small snapshot of all KC offers for couples. Follow Sarah Sipple for even more date night ideas.
How KC native, Lisa Peña, is uncovering local history.
By Laken Horton
In the heart of Kansas City is an experience that spotlights hidden treasures of the urban landscape. Lisa Peña, the mind behind Urban Hikes KC, has a passion for sharing the narratives, history and vibrant culture that often go unnoticed by visitors and even the most dedicated Kansas Citians.
Having always lived in Kansas City, Kansas, Lisa has a deep-rooted connection to her hometown, its history and community. The inspiration for her venture came while listening to a podcast highlighting California’s urban hikes — an experience that involves journeying through a city’s alleys, under bridges and along sidewalks to gain deeper insight into its untold stories. Soon, Lisa began a journey to bring this experience to KC’s urban communities, with a goal to reshape the way people would view and experience the city.
Urban Hikes’ four to five-mile guided tours, led by Lisa and her team members, take hikers or bicyclists through a variety of neighborhood options. Every step becomes an opportunity to chip away at surface knowledge and dive into lesser-known aspects of KC, from the historical architecture and artwork to the stories of perseverance etched into the city streets and walls.
Drawing on her experiences in the Peace Corps in the Dominican Republic, Lisa’s ambition for community connection and empowerment shines through Urban Hikes, as she guides each tour with a goal of unity and shared exploration. Each stop unravels a narrative waiting to be heard — from the vibrant Mexican heritage of the Westside neighborhood to the Quindaro Ruins, a key stop on the Underground Railroad and site of the first school for African Americans west of the Mississippi River.
For history lovers eager to uncover the layers of Kansas City’s past, Urban Hikes offer a new chance to discover a vibrant canvas of diverse stories, demonstrating that the true beauty of a city lies not only in its skyline but in the intricate tales woven into its streets and neighborhoods.
This veteran duo is energizing local skate culture.
By Randy Mason | Photos by Paul Andrews
Knejie “KJ” Allen, the co-owner of SK8 SHOT Studios, still recalls the first time he experienced “rhythm and dance” roller skating in his hometown of Houston, Texas.
“I thought, why does everybody not know about this? Everybody needs to do this. Every city should have this,” he says.
KJ’s reaction might sound a little over the top. But not to Adontis Atkins, his SK8 SHOT co-creator. For Adontis, skating resembles the movie “Soul” — where everything surrounding the piano player and his keyboard turns blue and fades away.
“That’s exactly what it’s like when we’re skating. Especially because we’re totally skating at speed. Things are blurry when you’re not focused on them. You just sink into the music.”
Though both men were stationed at Whiteman Air Force Base near Kansas City, they actually met while attending an Adult Night session at the Winnwood Skate Center.
Adult Nights are where the Black community has historically honed its skating skills, merging dance and sport in one high- energy bundle. It’s a style recently showcased to millions during Usher’s halftime performance at the Super Bowl.
Adontis and KJ also took to the great outdoors, skating together in parks and open spaces armed with Bluetooth speakers and a DIY flair that sparked even more attention.
In late 2023, the duo decided it was time to turn their passion into more than a logo and the line of merchandise they sold at skating rinks and pop-ups.
They opened SK8 SHOT Studios in a space on Burlington Avenue in North Kansas City. As KJ points out, it’s not a rink, nor is it strictly a skate shop.
The studio strives to be a “safe, supportive” place to get comfortable with skating basics and potentially master some of the more advanced moves.
“A lot of people are intimidated or embarrassed about their ability or lack of ability at a skating rink,” he says. “There’s a lot of pain involved when it comes to roller skating or trying to learn how to roller skate. And I mean that literally and metaphorically.”
Adontis says that with tools like mats and mirrors, SK8 SHOT’s teachers are able to double down on the kind of details that can’t be learned from a web tutorial. Things like which part of your foot to land on and how to adjust your posture, your neck or the position of your shoulders.
“It’s exciting,” he adds, “when students go from ‘oh, I can’t do this,’ or ‘I’m frustrated about this’ to executing it better than they’d imagined they could.”
Of course, building a lifestyle brand means plenty of lessons for the owners, too.
Their time in the Air Force taught KJ and Adontis many things — from public speaking to how to fix balky electronics. But each day in full brick-and-mortar mode brings new and unexpected challenges.
“There’s hard days,” KJ concedes. “But there’s never days where I’m like, damn, do I still want to do this? At least it’s doing what we love.”
Doing what they love — and doing it with others equally willing to take their skates on the road to “link up across area codes.”
“We want to teach as many people as possible how to skate,” KJ says. “That’s the studio’s mission. We want to build and grow the skate culture in Kansas City and turn it into a place where the rest of the country wants to come here to experience it.”
Catch KJ and Adontis on Max’s hit streaming series, Roller Jam.
From ramshackle warehouses to headlining international stages, Kevin Morby’s career finds roots in the Heartland.
By Michelle Bacon | Photos by Paul Andrews
Some of Kevin Morby’s most formative moments took place in hollowed-out warehouses, ramshackle punk basements and abandoned loft spaces across Kansas City — sweating it out shoulder-to-shoulder with other kids, mesmerized by clattering rhythms and crunchy guitars.
It was the early 2000s, a time when the Crossroads Arts District was still in its infancy, the historic West Bottoms was sparsely dotted with haunted houses and the city center was largely untouched after business hours. But to Kevin and friends, it was a playground of possibility — one that would lay the groundwork for an esteemed career.
With seven records in 10 years, including the heavily acclaimed “This Is A Photograph,” Kevin has become a pillar of the indie music world. A quick-witted observationist, the singer-songwriter has a penchant for turning the mundane into the sacred — rambling through lonesome prairies and whirring city streets into the liminal spaces we take for granted. His Midwestern roots inspire muted cerebral folk songs with gentle but deliberate paces, in contrast with more turbulent tunes that roll to a pensive boil.
Born in Texas, Kevin and his family moved around the Midwest before landing in the serene KC suburb of Overland Park, Kansas, when he was in fifth grade. It was also around then that his curiosity would point him to music as a way to express himself.
As a freshman at Blue Valley Northwest, Kevin began penning songs and performing under his own name, later joining friends in a band called The Creepy Aliens. Suddenly, he was leaving the comfort of his home, immersing himself in every genre imaginable at underground clubs in the urban core.
“I remember calling my mom on a friend’s cell phone the first time I went down to a show,” he says. “She asked where I was and I had to look at the street sign — it was like, 13th and Grand. We lived at 135th and Antioch. I didn’t know numbers could go that low.”
This music scene was not only Kevin’s gateway to the city proper, but to the prospect that it could become his life’s work. “Saying that I wanted to be a musician ‘for a living’ felt strange because I didn’t understand that concept until I got into the DIY scene. I just wanted to be able to do it and see the world,” he recalls.
The Creepy Aliens would embark on short runs and link up with other DIY acts in the region — musicians self-producing, distributing and performing their own music — giving Kevin his first taste of touring. They’d swap shows and share bills, show up for one another in their respective towns, crash at each other’s apartments. “It all felt like an impossibility until I discovered this underground network where bands were literally doing it all themselves,” he mentions. “Once I accessed that knowledge, it felt like the world completely opened up.”
But Kevin knew he couldn’t forge that path here — not in the early aughts. Shortly after dropping out of high school and turning 18, he boarded a train to New York. Its DIY scene was on the rise, reminiscent of his circle in KC but on a global scale. The eyes and ears of the world were paying attention, and the bright-eyed Kansas wanderer found himself in the center of it all.
“There is a beautiful thing about not being surrounded by culture, so that when you find it, you can access it,” he says. “A lot of these NY kids were over everything by the time they turned 18 because they’d tried everything or knew every famous person or had been to every art gallery. They took it for granted because it was all right in front of them.”
Kevin, on the other hand, dove in and got to work. At 19, he started playing bass in Woods, another burgeoning act on the Brooklyn circuit. His bandmates were 10 years his senior — “real adults with real jobs and responsibilities.” Hurled into the life of a road warrior, he’d quickly learn the basics of hauling gear, wrapping cables, packing a van and riding in said van for 10 hours at a time, night after night.
As he got his bearings, Kevin felt freer to explore his own music. He and Cassie Ramone formed and co-fronted The Babies, which would give him a chance to test his material and lead a band. “This was a vehicle for my songwriting and my emotions,” he says. “It was a way to put a mask on my solo songwriting, to kind of cloak it in these other things.” The group would go on to release a self-titled album in 2011 and its follow up, “Our House On the Hill,” the next year.
By then, Kevin’s beloved New York DIY scene was dwindling. Artists were being priced out, keeping them from fully immersing themselves in their careers. So, in 2013, he and Babies drummer Justin Sullivan relocated to the “cheap desert” of Los Angeles, moved into a “really big house for next to nothing,” and started working on Kevin’s debut solo album, “Harlem River.”
Now in his mid-20s, Kevin found himself at the vanguard of another nascent music scene. Artists he knew from the touring circuit were also heading to LA, eschewing the DIY microcosm for stronger foundations. “A whole new crop of bands were starting to take off. All these professional musicians were moving out there to have a go at it,” he says.
A new sound was emerging, where reflective solo songsters were taking center stage. Surrounded by delicate but dense sonic tapestries, it was lyrically imaginative and often more reminiscent of ‘60s folk luminaries and beat poets. Within the four years he lived in LA, Kevin’s name would become principal in that indie lexicon. He released three more acclaimed albums: “Still Life” (2014), “Singing Saw” (2016) and “City Music” (2017).
By then, Kevin would be nearing his thirties and again finding himself in transition. The cost of living in LA, let alone any major metro area, had become onerous. He began dating Katie Crutchfield, who was forging her own solo project as Waxahatchee, and whose life was following a similar trajectory. Katie grew up in the small underground punk scene of Birmingham, Alabama, making music with twin sister Allison. She and Kevin had moved around the country for their careers and spent most of their time on the road. Both had four albums to their credits, and their latest releases (Kevin’s “City Music” and Waxahatchee’s “Out in the Storm”) leaned into heavier electric sounds than expressed in previous works.
The pair would soon share another commonality, one that was far more fortuitous: an abiding love for Kansas City.
After being signed to Dead Oceans in 2015, Kevin took the advice of fellow musicians Bradford Cox and Kim Deal before him: Once you make any real money from music, buy a house. He snagged one in downtown Overland Park and rented it out to a friend. By 2017, the friend moved out, so Kevin would come back for a couple of months to tend to it, then return to LA. Katie would visit him in KC when their schedules aligned. She, too, was in transition, ready to leave Philadelphia.
“I was in a funny place where I was super jaded about where I was gonna live,” Katie says. “I had been everywhere in America 17 times. I didn’t want to be in NY, LA, Chicago or back south. I just couldn’t make up my mind… I was just sort of floating around.”
But something happened when she visited KC with her partner for the first time. “I remember being really struck by how much I liked it,” she says. “It was a feeling I hadn’t had in a long time, where I went to a new place and felt so connected to it.” Though she hadn’t considered moving to KC, Katie started seeing it as a wonderful middle ground that afforded her all the resources of a big city without all the noise. She began spending more time at Kevin’s Overland Park house between gigs, finding unexpected refuge.
In 2018, she made a life-altering decision, vowing to get sober and take an entire year off touring — an almost unheard-of choice for a musician whose primary income came through a life on the road.
“I was burning the candle at both ends — that’s what I had to do to earn a living,” she recalls. “It was scary, but something told me that’s what I needed to do to make the type of record that I really wanted to make.”
For the better part of that year, Katie cozied up in Kevin’s home while he was on tour — in the back shed studio area he dubbed The Little Los Angeles. “It was just this perfect little space. There was a piano, music gear everywhere,” she says. “I really felt like I could come here and feel that sense of solitude because I didn’t know many people here at the time, but because it had everything I needed, I could still go out and find really great food. [KC] has been really conducive to songwriting for me in that way.”
There, she would “spin silence into gold,” gifting those songs to the world in March 2020 and calling the effort “Saint Cloud.” A major breakthrough, the album doubled Waxahatchee’s fanbase and became a sanctuary for a world forced into abrupt lockdown. Katie’s own self-imposed isolation tapped into an elemental part of her musical identity, extracting pieces of her Southern roots while taking inspiration from the understated beauty of her new surroundings.
“It’s such a big part of it for me to live in a place like KC,” she says, adding that the ambient chatter of industry towns wasn’t working for her approach to songwriting. “Something about it makes my entire process feel more my own. It’s always important for me to shut the world out when I’m trying to receive some type of vision of what’s next, and I really needed that spaciousness to do that.”
As Kevin watched his girlfriend fall in love with KC, he found himself doing the same. “There was something about seeing KC through Katie’s eyes that made it easier for me to see it in a new perspective, rather than feeling like I was back in high school and nothing had changed.”
He also recognized how much it actually had changed. The modest metropolis of his youth had undergone a major transformation in the previous two decades — becoming an affordable, innovative Midwestern hub for artists, entrepreneurs, restaurateurs, tech startups and international sporting events. The DIY scene of Kevin’s teenage years had given way to a bustling community of musicians, many of whom were making the national scene with KC as their home base.
As he grew to appreciate it in a new light, Kevin started to see his life in Kansas City as a bounty. “The fact that I started making a living off my passion made me think, I really can’t mess this up,” he says. After more than a decade of paying his dues, he discovered that building a life here would reap greater rewards. Over the pandemic, Kevin and Katie put down roots and bought a home together in KC.
While their stars rise, the indie-rock couple feels a palpable sense of civic pride as Kansas City continues its renaissance. Both point to the star-studded Big Slick Celebrity Weekend, where they performed in the summer of 2024. Founded in 2010 by KC natives Paul Rudd, Jason Sudeikis and Rob Riggle, the annual gathering includes a slew of A-listers who come together for a softball game, concert and other events raising millions for local hospital, Children’s Mercy.
“It was cool to look around that room and think, all these people are from KC. Everyone has gone out and done something amazing but still reps their hometown and loves it so much. It’s such an inspiring place in that way,” Katie says. Kevin adds that it’s a “very Kansas City thing” to do — for these celebrities to give back to the community that molded them.
He gets to the heart of what he feels is so unique and personal about being from Kansas City. “KC feels like it belongs to me,” he says. “As much as I love NY and LA, they sort of belong to everybody. I have my spots here, and they feel like they’re sacred and secret. You can’t have that in bigger cities.”
In addition to favorite spots like Mutual Musicians Foundation, Big Mood Natural Wines, Earl’s Premier and Baramee Thai Bistro, Kevin and Katie have found an inspiring sense of place across KC’s byways. For Kevin, it’s vantage points like the northland bridges over the Missouri River, the Western Auto sign and suburban haunts he took for granted as a kid, like Glenwood Arts Theater and the former sites of The Rio and Metcalf South Mall in Overland Park.
To cap the conversation, Kevin shares an anecdote he’d recently heard about a fellow KC native — a musician whose shadow still looms large over the city nearly a century later.
“Someone told me that Charlie Parker couldn’t wait to get out of here,” he says. The flourishing KC jazz scene of the 1930s was ground zero for the saxophonist’s improvisational style, but like Kevin, he would have to leave in order for his sound to evolve. Something about that story stuck with the ruminative troubadour.
“There’s a happy ending to not agreeing with a place, going out and doing your thing, and then, at least for me, coming back,” Kevin says.
As the 36-year-old musician enters the next phase of his career, he carries his city with him and displays it like a badge of honor. He feels a debt of gratitude to Kansas City, both for giving him the curiosity to excavate the hidden treasures of humanity through his art and for being a safe, comfortable place to forge ahead and flourish. Kansas City set Kevin’s musical odyssey in motion, and in return, he’s making Kansas City cooler than ever.
